ABOUT ME

  • 6ft + the height of my shoes.

  • Yes, my hair is always pink. The shade will vary depending on when you see me. It occasionally fades to blonde when I haven’t had an opportunity to dye It.

  • She/Her.

  • Women’s US size 11.

  • Toronto, Ontario.

  • Pink (duh)

PRO-DOMINATION

  • I am skilled in most basic and advanced forms of BDSM and kink play. For a complete list of my Domination services, CLICK HERE.

    If you don’t see what you’re looking for on the list, please feel free to submit an inquiryy.

  • Any activities involving:

    • Actual non-consent

    • Children

    • Animals

    • Scat

    • Intimate body worship

    • Bare feet

    • Race play

  • HOURLY RATES:

    • 1 hour: $400.00

    • 1.5 hours: $575.00

    • 2 hours: $750.00

    • 2.5 hours: $925.00

    • 3 hours: $1,100.00

    Please inquire for the following:

    • Sessions longer than 4 hours

    • Overnight/multiple day sessions

    • Sessions involving more than one Professional

  • Yes! I absolutely love facilitating sessions with other Dominants and providers.

  • You can submit a booking request here.

  • The following suggestions are solely my own. Recommendations may vary based on what Dominant/provider you are seeing.

    1 - 1.5 HOURS:

    • Works best if you are already an established client.

    • Examples: you know exactly what you want and we’ve done it before, we’re sticking to a specific activity that we both have experience in, etc.

    • My general recommendation is to book at least 1.5 hours if you don’t want to feel rushed.

    1.5 - 2 HOURS:

    • Great for first timers (and everyone else too!).

    • Examples: you are new to kink, you’ve never seen a Pro before, it’s your first time in the spacer, it’s our first session together, you’re exploring something new, etc.

    • See “Further Recommendations“ below for more details on this.

    2 - 2.5 HOURS:

    • Perfect if you want to fully immerse yourself into a scene.

    • Examples: you want to experience an in-depth role-play, you’re hoping to drop deep into sub-space, you have a long list of activities to explore, etc.

    • I also recommend booking a minimum of 2 hours for duos and sessions involving multiple Dominants.

    2.5 - 3 HOURS:

    • Ideal for those ready to dig deep.

    • Examples: you want to be pushed to your limits or reach new levels of tolerance, you want to do an extensive role-play involving multiple parts, you’d like to perform acts of service that are actually helpful to me, your session involves more than one Professional, etc.

    • This is also a good amount of time for couples who want to learn new skills and play together, or for people who want a thorough consultation before the session begins.

    FURTHER RECOMMENDATIONS:

    • The number one thing I hear from first-time clients is “I didn’t realize how quickly time passes in the dungeon”. Remember, you can not extend your session if you decide mid-way that you want more time.

    • If you are a first-time client, I encourage you to book at least 1.5 hours. This allows enough time for introductions, scene negotiations, explorative play, aftercare/debriefing, and anything else that may require nuance or adjustments along the way.

    • For sessions involving two or more Dominants, I encourage you to book at least 2 hours. A surprising amount of new possibilities arise when multiple Professionals facilitate a scene together. Trust me, you’ll regret not having enough time for the scene to unfold in unimaginable ways.

    CONSIDER BOOKING ADDITIONAL TIME IF:

    • You plan on showering before and/or after the scene.

    • You require one or more breaks during a session.

    • You desire an extended amount of time for aftercare or debriefing.

    • You have certain accessibility requirements.

    • You are bringing your own items/equipment that you’ll need to unpack and cleanup.

  • A typical session is structured as follows (although it may vary).

    ARRIVAL:

    • Once you ring the doorbell I will come greet you at the door and welcome you inside.

    • You will have the opportunity to remove your shoes and use the washroom before our pre-scene negotiation begins.

    • This is an ideal time to provide me with your payment.

    NEGOTIATION/CHECK-IN:

    • We’ll start the session with a brief conversation about scene expectations, safety protocols, boundaries/limits, aftercare, accessibility requirements and anything else that may be relevant. It is critical that you are honest with me during this conversation.

    • You’ll have a moment to un/dress if need be and we’ll begin the scene whenever you’re ready.

    THE “SCENE”:

    • This is generally the longest portion of a session. I will guide the scene and facilitate all activities during this time.

    • ~30 minutes before the session is over we will focus on reaching the scene’s climax and transitioning into aftercare.

    AFTERCARE:

    • A small amount of time will be reserved for aftercare/debriefing before you get ready to leave.

    DEPARTURE:

    • A minimum of 5 minutes will be set aside for you to get dressed, collect your belongings, use the washroom, and get out the door on time.

  • An initial deposit is required to secure your booking. You are expected to provide the remaining amount at the beginning of your session. I prefer that you have your payment ready in an envelope upon arrival.

  • Regardless of what protocols and procedures are in place, some BDSM/kink scenes are inherently risky. Here are some of the ways that I do my best to negate the possibility of harm during a session:

    • I practice “Risk-Aware Consensual Kink” (RACK) and adhere to the “Safe, Sane*, Consensual” (SSC) model.

      • ”Sane” is a subjective, antiquated, and often ableist term. For me, the term “sane” represents a state of mind that is sober and capable of making sound decisions within the context of a scene.

    • I am First-Aid and CPR certified through the Canadian Red Cross.

    • I am trained in Non-Violent Crisis Prevention and Intervention (disability-specific but applicable to anyone).

    • I am fully vaccinated against COVID-19.

    • Safe words are pre-negotiated before the scene begins (the stoplight system generally works well).

    • All needles are immediately disposed of in a designated sharps container upon removal.

    • Condoms are placed over all toys as a protective barrier.

    • I wear disposable gloves during activities that may involve bodily fluids to minimize the possibility of any infection or cross-contamination.

    • I am happy to wear a mask and/or other PPE upon request.

SESSION ETIQUETTE

  • While tipping is not required, it will definitely earn you some extra points! There is no standard tipping protocol (i.e., 18% at a restaurant) so the amount you give is up to your discretion.

  • ✅ I am more than happy to accommodate aesthetic preferences if you mention them in your booking form. For example: “I like leather”, “I’m into shiny things” or “I’m a glove lover”. This way I can dress with you in mind while still leaving the actual outfit choice up to me.

    ❌ I will not accommodate outfit requests in which you list every item that you want me to wear or include pictures of a specific look that you want me to achieve. I am not a fetish dispenser, I am a Dominant. The best clients are ones who come to see me for ME, not for the clothes they want me to wear.

  • With the exception of role-plays that involve a specific title (Doctor, Nurse, Teacher, etc.), you may address me as Ms., Ms. Mars, Mistress, or Mommy. We can discuss these options at the beginning of your session.

  • No. You may not touch or physically engage with me during a session unless I have specifically directed or invited you to do so.

  • Arrive on time. Do not arrive early. No additional time will be granted if you arrive late.

  • Up to you! You may be in any state of un/dress during a session. I have no preferences or expectations about what you wear or don’t wear.

    You will be asked to remove your outdoor shoes upon arrival. If you’d like to wear shoes of any kind during a session, please bring a clean indoor pair. Bare feet, socks and stockings are always acceptable.

    Here are some suggestions:

    • Nothing at all

    • Something that makes you feel sexy (i.e., lingerie, fetish wear, your favourite outfit)

    • Something that makes you feel comfortable (i.e., loose clothing, socks & underwear, a robe)

    • A themed outfit for a role-play scenario

  • Please practice proper hygiene. I expect that you arrive having showered within a reasonable time-frame. Please book additional time if you plan to shower before and/or after your session.

    Prep for anal play. If you desire pegging or any type of anal play, please prepare in advance by using an enema or anal douche and groom yourself accordingly. If you arrive without doing so I may request that you appropriately prepare yourself in the washroom before starting the scene.

  • If you see me at an event that I am working and/or attending in a professional capacity, yes!

    If you see me somewhere outside of the aforementioned exceptions, no. If we happen to cross paths in civilian life I will purposefully ignore you and I ask that you do the same in return.

ACCOUNTS & SITES

  • @MSCHLOEMARS is my handle on both Twitter and Instagram. I am not on any other social platforms.

    I use Twitter as more of a professional platform and Instagram just for fun (I can’t take myself t.o seriously). You’ll get the best sense of who I am by following both accounts.

  • Please do not use direct messages (DMs) and/or comments on social media as your primary way of contacting me. I keep my DMs open to communicate with certain people and groups—not to chat with strangers. If you send me a DM or comment on a post it may take a while for me to see it. In some cases I may never get to responding at all. DMs often end up in my spam folder as well which I rarely check. For serious inquiries and matters that require a more timely response, please send an email directly to mschloemars@proton.me or you can submit an inquiry.

  • I am currently on hiatus. I will make an announcement if/when I return to the platform.

PROJECT DEIMOS

  • TLDR: Project Deimos is my side gig.

    When I’m not in the dungeon, I put my creative skills to work providing digital design services and brand consulting exclusively for sex workers.

  • Inspired by my namesake’s moon, Deimos represents the moonlight work I do outside of the dungeon—a passion project that closely orbits my work as a Pro-Dominatrix. For me, “Project Deimos” symbolizes the satellite relationship between design and Domination, or more broadly, solicitation and sex work.

  • Project Deimos services are exclusively for sex workers.

    For example:

    • Service providers

    • Pro-Dominants

    • Content creators

    • Erotic performers

    • Sex educators

    • Event organizers

    • Anyone in the SW industry!

    • Websites

    • Business cards

    • Social media banners

    • Price sheets / tip menus / one-pagers

    • Templates

    • Misc. graphic design

    • Brand consulting

    • + more!

  • All services are offered on a sliding scale. Flexible payment plans are also available.

    See all rates here.

  • You can check out my recent projects here.